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As children, we often dream big and have limitless aspirations. We believe we can be anything we want to be and accomplish great things. However, as we grow older and transition into adulthood, we often find ourselves lacking the same level of self-belief and confidence.

There are several reasons why we may shut down and lose faith in ourselves:

1. Society’s Expectations: Society places certain expectations on adults, such as finding stable careers, settling down, and conforming to societal norms. These expectations can limit our sense of possibility and discourage us from pursuing unconventional paths or taking risks.
2. Fear of Failure: As we mature, we become more aware of the possibility of failure and its potential consequences. The fear of failing, making mistakes, or not meeting our own or others’ expectations can lead us to doubt our abilities and limit our ambitions.
3. Past Experiences: Negative experiences or setbacks in our past can significantly impact our self-belief. If we faced repeated failures or received critical feedback, it can erode our confidence and make us hesitant to pursue our dreams.
4. Comparison and Competition: In adulthood, we often find ourselves surrounded by others who seem to have accomplished more or achieved greater success. Comparing ourselves to others and feeling like we fall short can make us doubt our own abilities and lose faith in our potential.
5. Practical Realities: Adult life comes with responsibilities and practical considerations. Financial constraints, family obligations, and the need for stability may lead us to prioritize practicality over our dreams. We may convince ourselves that pursuing our passions is unrealistic or too risky.
6. Lack of Support: Sometimes, the lack of a supportive network can contribute to self-doubt. If we don’t have people who believe in us or encourage us to pursue our dreams, it becomes harder to maintain our own belief in ourselves.

It’s important to recognize that while these reasons may influence our self-belief, they are not insurmountable barriers. Rediscovering our childhood sense of wonder and cultivating self-belief as adults requires introspection, self-compassion, and a willingness to challenge the limitations we’ve imposed on ourselves. By reframing our mindset, seeking support, setting achievable goals, and embracing failure as a learning opportunity, we can reignite our belief in ourselves and strive towards fulfilling our dreams.

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